Faster EFT Comes to Hawaii
Faster EFT Comes to Hawaii – yes, my good-old friend and colleague Robert Smith, the founder of www.FasterEFT.com is arriving to Honolulu on Monday, we will do a class, TV show and and amazing Relationship interview, answering all of your relationship questions, if you have some, just email them to me Helena@LivDelicious.com .
Gary Craig
Gary Craig, the founder of EFT is retiring and he will be closing his website and quit production of original EFT Training DVDs. If there are any left, you can get them here – It is a good thing to do in 2010 – learn EFT from founder himself. Thank you Gary for all you have done. Without you I would still be afraid of speaking English. Love ya!
Tuesday, Jan 5th -Tapping group with my special guest my friend and colleague Robert Smith of www.fastereft.com .
Tuesday, Jan 5th – Tapping group with my special guest my friend and colleague Robert Smith of www.fastereft.com .
We will learn about Faster version of EFT tapping from the originator himself. We will use just few of the tapping points and totally CHANGE the way we see reality.
Lead by Helena Summer Medena (founder of www.LivDelicious.com), Emotional Freedom Expert and your best friend, special guest Robert Smith "The Genius"
Seating limited to 10, please email to reserve your spot. Free admission.
Share“My wife has issues, why should I tap?”
I know a young couple, we’ll call Mike & Sarah, that are open minded, funny, connected and generally happy. Lately, Mike has been experiencing lots of problems with Sarah. He said, “I am a nice guy, I do my job, more than expected, and still, she gets angry, moody and ignores me and my needs. She has so many issues and she should tap with you, but she doesn’t want to. She doesn’t think tapping is what she needs… how do I make her come and tap?”
I smiled and invited him to come without her and do his own tapping. When Sarah is ready she will join too.
Mike came for a session and for the first 10 minutes he spoke about her problems, her stress, her attitude and her rage. He gave me so much valuable information in those first few minutes. He basically shared all of the problems HE HAS with her. Sarah’s problems were actually “owned” by Mike.
He felt it everywhere and even if Sarah would show him love, he wouldn’t be able to see it. He was looking at what he was focusing on. In his mind, he was a victim of her emotional swings. In his mind he always gave and never got anything back…. Just like his memories from childhood.
Of course, being a man with the powerful masculine identity, he was unaware of where that came from. So, we started with tapping and NLP combined. I didn’t use the karate chop point at all, since he was already in the “trance.”
We first tapped on “I do so much for her” and when he was deeply convinced that THAT is the source of the problem, I got him out of trance with “She does so much for me.” He got quiet and nodded his head in a surprise.
We went back to the “I do so much for her trance.” We got him out with “I don’t do anything for her, anything that she really needs.” He nodded again.
When I attempted to get him back to the place of “I do so much for her,” Mike smiled and humbly said, “You know, that’s not true, I do all of that for me, because I love doing the things I do! I just tell her that I am doing it for her.”
Layer by layer, we were cleaning up his firm beliefs. The biggest surprise came when he suddenly remembered that he is actually the angry and the moody one. Then he remembered that once he got so angry that he broke everything that was breakable in the house. When I asked him how come he forgot about it, he said, “Oh, that was long time ago, last year.”
His subconscious mind tricked him in the most elegant way. Mike was projecting his internal chatter, his own beliefs on Sarah. And that was just a beginning of our work – as we tapped, he was releasing and letting go of the deep, strong emotions and finally discovered how it all begun – from the experiences his absent mother. His subconscious mind got the message that if a woman loves you, she would leave you. Because Sarah was not leaving, he was desperately re-creating situations that could potentially lead to the end. Because of intense yelling in his childhood, he felt alive when someone yell at him. Since Sarah was not a yeller, he made powerful projections that were true to him. It was a double edged sword.
A few days later, I called to check in on him. Mike said that they were both so busy and he didn’t have time to think about our session. When asked if they had time to fight, he smiled and said, “No, not yet!” I invited him to make time for some good yelling fun, but he just ignored my invitation. I wonder why…
The moral of the story is… when we point our finger outward we often project our own insecurities on to the people we love. When we have inner conflict the place to start is with ourselves. When we balance our own emotions our situation becomes much more clear. Then we can respond in a loving and supportive way.
Next time when you are convinced that your spouse really needs to tap, remember your power and that YOU can help your spouse by tapping on yourself….
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ShareFree Seminar in Honolulu
Tuesday, September 08, 2009 – “Find peace in the Anxious Economy”
We will cover 2 most important things to address for the peace of your mind and do a game that eases stress without tapping.
Then, we will use some tapping methods that are Faster than EFT.
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My free seminars in Honolulu will be scheduled again in October. When we resume we will have a Delicious palette of presentations and games to make our serious work fun.
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SharePost Traumatic Money Disorder?
Money, money, money… I recently received several emails from clients that were filled with the “Money Anxiety Disorder” symptoms. They include feeling of pressure, panic or confusion. It influences breathing, heart rate, affects sleep and relationships.
It doesn’t surprise me. In less then a year, stress related to financial crises has increased more than 15%, which means that 8 in 10 Americans, the residents of one of the richest countries on the planet, are anxious because of Dollar Almighty.
There are books, trainings and financial reports on how to preserve your money or make it grow. Plenty of tricks to save and stretch offered by stay at home moms and people who “practically” experienced awakening of their financial intelligence.
I was a millionaire at the age of 10. Actually, everyone was a millionaire in the middle of the recession in ex-Yugoslavia in 1984. For 2 million you could get such a beautiful broccoli at the Farmers Market. Money lost all its value. As a child, I have seen a lot of financial ups and downs, mostly downs and I’ve learned the ways to keep the chin up when the market is down.
Here are few ideas that work and you can learn more in person at my seminar. I will present something beyond EFT in Hawaii, Honolulu, this Tuesday. (more info here)
Tip 1 – Watch the money experts
Yes, for some practical advice as well as for the ways they are dealing with their M.A.D (Money Anxiety Disorder)
Did you know that people in “Serious” business get regular education on the peak performance and learn about breathing, meditation and affirmation techniques?
Methods like NLP, EFT and Hypnosis are increasing in popularity and there is growth on the common understanding that only with stress-free mind we can think productive.
Tip 2 – Sun is shining for free!
These are the words of my mom. When the economy hit strong, everyone was talking crises. News, radio, TV, coworkers… sounds familiar? My mom knew that she can’t change that, and she knew that with the power of uplifting attitude, we can find creative ways to the place of gratitude and awareness of what is working FOR you.
Breathe, relax your body, walk, and notice the sun shining for free. Moon and rain… free!
Be good to your husband’s wife, good to your mother’s son, good to your child’s mom… be good to YOURSELF – love your body, love your mind and preserve the health by replacing self-induced stress bringing thoughts with supportive ones. And take that “prescription” regularly.
Will these tips make you richer?
They will not bring you the Prince on the white horse with a Chariot full of cash. However, you will certainly feel better about it all, feel more capable to handle it and learn that the economy crisis is in the system, not in you. Just remember that your personal economy depends on You. Cherish, love and adore the most valuable asset you have – yourself.
“Delicious” is a state of mind. Crisis is also.
What is your state of mind?
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Free Seminar in Honolulu – “Trapped in Anger? – Free yourself from those chains and Liv Delicious”
You all know that I support EFT tapping as one of the most effective tools to use in order to Liv a Delicious life. Yes … and on this seminar I will show you tapping style that works super quickly, faster and it is very pleasant to do in the group! Admission is free and we only have 12 seats!
