Heart Broken Swallow
His mate is injured; she was hit by a car as she swooped low across the road.
He brought her food and attended to her with love and compassion.
He brought her food again, but was shocked this time to find her dead. Then he tried to move her (a rarely-seen effort for swallows).
Aware that his sweetheart is dead and will never come back to him again, he cries out with adoring love
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He stood beside her, telling the world that he is saddened by her death.
Finally aware that she would never return to him, he stood beside her body with only sadness and sorrow.
Millions of people in America , Europe and India cried after seeing these photos. The photographer sold these pictures for a nominal fee to the most famous newspaper in France . All copies of that edition were sold out on the day these pictures were published.
You have just witnessed Love and Sorrow Felt by God’s creatures.
And many people will still believe animals don’t have a brain or feelings…
Watch your thoughts, for they become words;
Watch your words, for they become actions;
Watch your actions, for they become character;
Watch your character, for it becomes destiny.
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www.livdelicious.com
Blog Talk Radio
Joining me today is delicious Helena Summer Medena, EFT expert and a woman with a mission, vision, goals and zest for life – She’s going to share with us how to take a bitter taste out of your life and Liv Delicious – She will guide us through 3 simple steps that we can take every day in order to experience more joy and fulfillment, how to turn problems into an opportunities, and how to Develop a Delicious perspective You can get your free copy of The EFT Manual by EFT Founder, Gary Craig
ShareYou will NOT believe this!
Here is something that you will NOT believe. You will NOT believe your own eyes, and you will probably forget to breathe and say: “Oh my God”.
What you are about to watch is a miracle that very clearly shows how there is, indeed, no need to worry. Dramatic stories that our minds scare us with can appear real, and it doesn’t have to be. Watch this video and bring it to your life. Whatever seems impossible, maybe it is possible? Maybe your worry is just it – a worry. And maybe you too have an Angel, or Spirit watching over you?
Remember, life is short… Liv Delicious
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ShareI know you are the kind of person that…
Remember the last time you felt “bad” and people told you something like “I don’t want you to feel bad” or “Please don’t cry”. How did it feel? Calming or disruptive?
In a healthy state, human beings are able to experience the FULL spectrum of emotions. These emotions are vibrating on the variety of frequencies. Some are low and they feel that way, some are high, and some are excessively low or excessively high. They all have their place and time.
Mastering our emotional state doesn’t only mean that we became proficient at the way we deal with our own emotions, but also that we improve our reaction to the feelings of others.
Live and let live.
Feel and let feel.
When someone is obviously in a disturbed space, practice just being there. If you say “I don’t want you to feel bad…” what is the message you are trying to convey? They do not want to feel bad either and your words are actually suggesting that you are unable to deal with them feeling bad. “Please don’t cry” actually means “I don’t know what to do with my emotions when I see you cry, help me feel better by not crying” It means, “I don’t care about your feelings, I care about mine, so stop the way you are processing what bothers you and I will be fine”.
Speak Delicious!
Delicious communication is when both parties feel uplifted, encouraged and positive about the outcome.
For example, if your partner is sad, you can try the alternative approach by saying something like: “Honey, I know you are the kind of woman who overcomes hurdles, we will find a way through this” Or “As I look at you sad, I remember last time and you surprised me by the way you kept your chin up.”
Talk calmly and base your response on this foundation “I know that you are the kind of person that…”
This represents:
- Your trust
- Your compassion, without your need for them to change – pure acceptance
- Positive solution.
If your child is angry, grumpy or having a temper tantrum, use the same foundation to share love and be there as a firm parent, a leader, as someone your child can find comfort and stability with.
Say something like: “It looks like you are feeling angry and that’s ok. We can talk about it and find a solution together. Perhaps we can tap, and if you want to remain grumpy, you have 15 minutes to be as grumpy as you wish. Then we will get back as a family and you will not disrupt the entire home because of what happened at school.
Take into consideration that children are processing emotions in a different way; instinctively feel when it is important to set restrictions and when to give hugs and be sweet and forgiving. Always remember, people don’t need fixing. People prefer friends, solutions and connections.
The fact that you are reading this article, tells me that you are the kind of person who is willing to use the power of your word to build the world you like to live in. Speak Delicious! It is not easy, but it’s worth it!
EFT Hawaii
www.livdelicious.com
Free Seminar in Honolulu
Tuesday, September 08, 2009 – “Find peace in the Anxious Economy”
We will cover 2 most important things to address for the peace of your mind and do a game that eases stress without tapping.
Then, we will use some tapping methods that are Faster than EFT.
Only 12 seats, RSVP
My free seminars in Honolulu will be scheduled again in October. When we resume we will have a Delicious palette of presentations and games to make our serious work fun.
Think Delicious!
EFT Hawaii
ShareWhat’s love got to do with Facebook?
Everything!
I have recently posted a rhetorical question on my Facebook wall “I often wonder who of my FB friends would really be there for me when life is not so Delicious….”
All the responses were loving and kind ranging from people I never met, to people I am personally close with.
Have you joined FaceBook yet? I would love to be your FB friend and stay in touch… then you don’t have to wonder who would be there for you when life is not so Delicious!
My page is – http://www.facebook.com/LivDelicious
EFT Hawaii
SharePost Traumatic Money Disorder?
Money, money, money… I recently received several emails from clients that were filled with the “Money Anxiety Disorder” symptoms. They include feeling of pressure, panic or confusion. It influences breathing, heart rate, affects sleep and relationships.
It doesn’t surprise me. In less then a year, stress related to financial crises has increased more than 15%, which means that 8 in 10 Americans, the residents of one of the richest countries on the planet, are anxious because of Dollar Almighty.
There are books, trainings and financial reports on how to preserve your money or make it grow. Plenty of tricks to save and stretch offered by stay at home moms and people who “practically” experienced awakening of their financial intelligence.
I was a millionaire at the age of 10. Actually, everyone was a millionaire in the middle of the recession in ex-Yugoslavia in 1984. For 2 million you could get such a beautiful broccoli at the Farmers Market. Money lost all its value. As a child, I have seen a lot of financial ups and downs, mostly downs and I’ve learned the ways to keep the chin up when the market is down.
Here are few ideas that work and you can learn more in person at my seminar. I will present something beyond EFT in Hawaii, Honolulu, this Tuesday. (more info here)
Tip 1 – Watch the money experts
Yes, for some practical advice as well as for the ways they are dealing with their M.A.D (Money Anxiety Disorder)
Did you know that people in “Serious” business get regular education on the peak performance and learn about breathing, meditation and affirmation techniques?
Methods like NLP, EFT and Hypnosis are increasing in popularity and there is growth on the common understanding that only with stress-free mind we can think productive.
Tip 2 – Sun is shining for free!
These are the words of my mom. When the economy hit strong, everyone was talking crises. News, radio, TV, coworkers… sounds familiar? My mom knew that she can’t change that, and she knew that with the power of uplifting attitude, we can find creative ways to the place of gratitude and awareness of what is working FOR you.
Breathe, relax your body, walk, and notice the sun shining for free. Moon and rain… free!
Be good to your husband’s wife, good to your mother’s son, good to your child’s mom… be good to YOURSELF – love your body, love your mind and preserve the health by replacing self-induced stress bringing thoughts with supportive ones. And take that “prescription” regularly.
Will these tips make you richer?
They will not bring you the Prince on the white horse with a Chariot full of cash. However, you will certainly feel better about it all, feel more capable to handle it and learn that the economy crisis is in the system, not in you. Just remember that your personal economy depends on You. Cherish, love and adore the most valuable asset you have – yourself.
“Delicious” is a state of mind. Crisis is also.
What is your state of mind?
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