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Living Delicious with Wally Amos
No longer famous, Wally Amos, still bakes!
After having EVERYTHING taken away from him, everything, including his name – Wally turns the lemons into most Delicious lemonade!
Living Delicious with Wally Amos
Enjoy this funny, motivational, joyful interview with my friend Wally Amos and learn:
- How to became productive and surprise yourself
- What is the Hollywood facade all about
- What to do when you make mistake in your biz
- How to lose everything and build a Delicious state of mind
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Living Delicious with Travis T
Living Delicious with Travis T
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“You are Stupid?!?”
Last week “Corry” came to see me. She is a young woman with stunningly beautiful physical features. With the frustration in her voice Corry said, I am so slow, so spaced out, I can’t do anything right, nobody likes me at work, everyone is judging me.
She was desperately trying to fit in, trying to “get it” and couldn’t. Her “dizziness” was slowing down the entire work team. She just wanted to be like everyone else.
I asked her to stop talking, take a breath and feel that pain and frustration in her body. She felt it in her heart. When I asked her “Do you remember when you have felt that way before?”, she nodded her head and cried.
Corry remembered the moment when she was a little girl walking on the street with her mom and her little sister, who was very smart, quick and witty, yet not as nearly as pretty as Corry. Suddenly mom turned to Corry and said, “I would be a lucky mother if I can have one daughter that has your beauty and her brains! Now I have one ugly and one stupid daughter.”
Ever since that moment, Corry was “hypnotized” into the
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Enjoy this interesting perspective on modern days from one of my favorite authors Alain deBotton. It will intrigue your mind to think Delicious.
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Honolulu Happenings
* Every Monday at 12 noon- Living Delicious with Helena Channel 52, Olelo.
I host a 30 minute, show and always bring excellent new guests. This month Master Storyteller Jeff Gere speaks about using the faculty of your speech power. Also this month I have Don Brown, movie producer, speaking about his experiences in Hollywood and his valuable work in Hawaii.
* Tuesday, October 6th, 6pm – “Tame Stress and Liv Delicious”
Free classes on using Tapping in stressful situations. Even if you don’t share what your stress is all about, we will tame it. Very powerful!
* Thursday, October 15th at 7pm – “Health is Wealth”
Channel 52, one hour live TV show with Dr. Inam Rahman. “Why Tapping?” Dynamic discussion on the benefits of tapping and how you can use it in your daily life. Call in number 808-834-2886
How to use your words to create lasting changes
Watch Master Storyteller Jeff Gere explaining the power of the story. In this interview you will find out:
- How to make your brain learn faster
- How to keep the lesson learned even decades later
- Talk Story Festival – almost 1000 people gathers for spooky stories
Tell your story – Speak Delicious!
Share“My wife has issues, why should I tap?”
I know a young couple, we’ll call Mike & Sarah, that are open minded, funny, connected and generally happy. Lately, Mike has been experiencing lots of problems with Sarah. He said, “I am a nice guy, I do my job, more than expected, and still, she gets angry, moody and ignores me and my needs. She has so many issues and she should tap with you, but she doesn’t want to. She doesn’t think tapping is what she needs… how do I make her come and tap?”
I smiled and invited him to come without her and do his own tapping. When Sarah is ready she will join too.
Mike came for a session and for the first 10 minutes he spoke about her problems, her stress, her attitude and her rage. He gave me so much valuable information in those first few minutes. He basically shared all of the problems HE HAS with her. Sarah’s problems were actually “owned” by Mike.
He felt it everywhere and even if Sarah would show him love, he wouldn’t be able to see it. He was looking at what he was focusing on. In his mind, he was a victim of her emotional swings. In his mind he always gave and never got anything back…. Just like his memories from childhood.
Of course, being a man with the powerful masculine identity, he was unaware of where that came from. So, we started with tapping and NLP combined. I didn’t use the karate chop point at all, since he was already in the “trance.”
We first tapped on “I do so much for her” and when he was deeply convinced that THAT is the source of the problem, I got him out of trance with “She does so much for me.” He got quiet and nodded his head in a surprise.
We went back to the “I do so much for her trance.” We got him out with “I don’t do anything for her, anything that she really needs.” He nodded again.
When I attempted to get him back to the place of “I do so much for her,” Mike smiled and humbly said, “You know, that’s not true, I do all of that for me, because I love doing the things I do! I just tell her that I am doing it for her.”
Layer by layer, we were cleaning up his firm beliefs. The biggest surprise came when he suddenly remembered that he is actually the angry and the moody one. Then he remembered that once he got so angry that he broke everything that was breakable in the house. When I asked him how come he forgot about it, he said, “Oh, that was long time ago, last year.”
His subconscious mind tricked him in the most elegant way. Mike was projecting his internal chatter, his own beliefs on Sarah. And that was just a beginning of our work – as we tapped, he was releasing and letting go of the deep, strong emotions and finally discovered how it all begun – from the experiences his absent mother. His subconscious mind got the message that if a woman loves you, she would leave you. Because Sarah was not leaving, he was desperately re-creating situations that could potentially lead to the end. Because of intense yelling in his childhood, he felt alive when someone yell at him. Since Sarah was not a yeller, he made powerful projections that were true to him. It was a double edged sword.
A few days later, I called to check in on him. Mike said that they were both so busy and he didn’t have time to think about our session. When asked if they had time to fight, he smiled and said, “No, not yet!” I invited him to make time for some good yelling fun, but he just ignored my invitation. I wonder why…
The moral of the story is… when we point our finger outward we often project our own insecurities on to the people we love. When we have inner conflict the place to start is with ourselves. When we balance our own emotions our situation becomes much more clear. Then we can respond in a loving and supportive way.
Next time when you are convinced that your spouse really needs to tap, remember your power and that YOU can help your spouse by tapping on yourself….
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